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A BLOG FOR PARENTS OF CHILDREN WITH DIFFERENCES, DISABILITIES, AND DIAGNOSES


Hope: May The Good Times Continue
Every December I write a post in which I reflect both on what happened to my family over the past twelve months and on what that year has taught me about the concept of hope. When it comes to my daughter, JJ, and the fight against her disease, this year was the most hopeful one yet. Though Rett Syndrome continues to be a looming presence in our lives, we still found many moments of joy and reasons for optimism over the course of 2025. The biggest cause for celebration happene


Duality: Why We Need to Learn to Live with Opposing Truths
I am the primary caregiver to my seven-year-old daughter, JJ, who has Rett Syndrome. I have watched Rett take away her independent steps, hand use, words, and much of her swallowing ability. Recently, it has even begun to curve her little spine. At first, when her losses were coming fast and furious, I only felt the negatives—the anger, grief, unending terror, and bottomless heartache. It has taken many years, but happiness, contentment—even flashes of joy—have now reentered


An Important Tool That Has Helped Me Heal from Trauma
In the world of medical and disability parenting, sources of trauma abound. There are, of course, the terrible things that can happen to...


Writing: Moving Beyond The Numbers
Average engagement time. Engaged sessions per user. New users. Returning users. Tears blurred my vision as I looked at the Google...


Caregiver Burnout
Something went wrong in the middle of spring. With little provocation, I began snapping at my loved ones. My body started dragging and my...


Mental Energy: A Precious but Finite Resource
Mental energy. Cognitive load. Emotional bandwidth. Whatever we call it, we all have a certain amount we expend each day. And when that...


A Life Half Told: How It Feels When People Only Want to Hear About Silver Linings
I am a writer whose subject matter sometimes horrifies people. Yet, there are no guts, weapons, or gore in my essays and stories. My...


My List of Hopeful Things: Part III
I have chosen to release my list of hopeful things in several installments. The first and second parts describe the positive...


Is My Child Living a Good Life?
When you are a special needs parent, you are often forced to face a host of heavy questions. What will happen when my child gets too big...


Social Media: Why Do I Feel So Alone In This Sea Of People?
It’s not exactly breaking news that social media and the internet are both a blessing and a curse. But when it comes to special needs...


My List of Hopeful Things: Part II
A few weeks ago, I posted the first installment of my list of hopeful things. It is meant for everyone to enjoy, but particularly...


Happy Ends: How we define a happy end for ourselves, our child, and our family
I am in a writing group with three other women. The genres we prefer are very different, but our stories have one thing in common: They...
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